Got to change yo alttitude

a change in altitude can change life and pple different perspective on certain issues.
Pple must be ready to make a U-turn there lives and abort the old primitive way of life.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Fear Factor

1. The world is a horrible place. Lions kill for food but people kill for spot. People try to kill you mentally, especially when you are on top. 2. We all have friends who want everything we have. They want our money, our business, house, car, wife and cat. Those are our friends. Our enemies are event worst. You got to protect yourself in life. 3. The same burning greed that makes people loot, kill and steal in emergency like fires and floods operates daily in normal in everyday life. It looks right beneath the surface and when you least expected, it raises it nasty head and bites you. Accept it. The world is a brutal place. 4. Always hope for the best in people and be prepared for the worst. 5. Be very careful when you hire people. If you do not watch your back, they will surely reap you off. 6. Do not worry about being like. It doesn’t matter whether your employees like you or not. Be damn sure that they respect you. 7. I used to say, “Hire the best people and trust them.” Now I know better. Now I say, “Hire the best people and don’t trust them.

Saturday, April 14, 2012

Lets build ourself with our own ideas!

Hey pple welcome to ma blog,here i share ma own views on different aspect in life generaly;news,challenges etc.Come one come all visit ma site.

Friday, March 2, 2012

What to do? Action plan

Assess your present situation: If you keep on doing what you are doing since quite some time, you will get the same results what you are getting. To get new results, do some thing different.
• Try to find some new idea – how will you create and income generating asset?
• Take action, after finding new some new idea. Practical tip: Find Mentor. Try to find some person who has achieved what you want to achieve. Ask tips from him / her.
• Try to invest in real estate when market is down. Make offers. Don’t sit and wait for opportunity to come.
• Learn from lessons of successful people.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Secrets Women Wish YouKnew

Don't Hide Your Flaws
Nothing captures a woman's heart quite like a good
man who wants to be a better man, according to love
guru Kirschner. "Women love personal growth, they
love a man who is thoughtful and sensitive." She
likes it when her man recognizes a flaw -- a short
temper, for example, or a regularly sullen mood
after work -- and loves it when he makes an effort
to address it

Chivalry Still Has a Place
When it comes to romance, many women do like men
to take a traditional masculine role. This is
especially true in the wooing stage of a
relationship, according to psychologist Diana
Kirschner, PhD, who's written several books about
love. She's perfectly capable of pulling out her
own chair or opening a door, but if you see her
hesitate, she might just be waiting for you to be the

Don't Try to Fix Her World
When something's bothering her, she wants your ear,
not your advice. "Men feel the need to fix things
because they are solution-oriented," says Kirschner.
"But to a woman, really listening is a wonderful,
wonderful thing that deepens the relationship

Nodding Is Not Enough
Listening is important, but she also wants to know
that she is being heard. Nodding along won't cut it.
When she pauses, she's giving you a cue to respond in
a compassionate, caring way, says Kirschner. If she
tells you that she is upset because her boss gave
her a tough time, she wants to hear you say "I'm sorry
that work was such a drag for you today." And
remember: Resist the urge to offer solutions

Friday, December 30, 2011

11 Ways to Calm Down an AngryWoman

Lower Your Thermostat
Whatever you do, don't get angry. Surprisingly enough, she
won't consider it righteous; she'll just get more pissed off, and a
little self-righteous besides. If you feel yourself heating up, just
remember that "she can't make you angry,"

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.

Let her fall in love gradually. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.

The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.